Make It Matter means ‘IT matters’ - The story matters, I have reached a place in life where I want to use my experiences, knowledge and strength for the future positively so we can reach full potential.

Make It Matter has been launched to help give Choice, Direction, Hope and Confidence to those who are trying to move forward in life and to change their life situations.

Making-It-Matter is my main aim, I would like to put to good use the lessons life has presented to me by helping others to break free from old habits and cycles within their lives. To build self-worth, self-esteem, self-awareness and self-confidence, enabling growth and personal development, providing understanding and back ground knowledge as to why things happen and how to let it all go and move on. I can help regain lost motivation and energy, give some simple life tools that I have learned along the way with my Recovery programme, self taught and devised from my personal lessons and experiences.

So if you are stuck and can’t move on or even go back this could help. If it doesn’t you haven’t lost anything and if it does help you have it all to gain....

I feel I am qualified to advise as I am someone who has been there. I’m not a therapist but I have sound understanding, experience and compassion for the behaviour that derives from childhood trauma, abuse and abandonment; from loss and let downs in life and from reactive behaviour and bad judgements in adult life. I have made mistakes and realisations, learned hard lessons and asked myself why? I have invested much time trying to understand and make sense of my life but most of all I have made changes and survived a better person with my humour intact.

The aim of this website is to be a link for those who don’t know about what is available to them, how they can access help and move on. To discuss worries, individual stories and experiences, to give value and appreciation of how others have grown and learned to move on and to support each other. We are all individuals; sometimes we need a bit of help to see the world differently. Our upbringings are all different and we view what is out there with many opinions and judgements and sometimes those beliefs don’t serve us anymore.

I will share my experiences and what I know with you and others will use their talents and therapy to educate, guide and direct in any way that will help progression take place.